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Sprint 84D · Cultural Templates

Templates that respect your ceremony.

Language localization is not ceremony localization. Each template here is structured around a real cultural ceremony — its phases, roles, paper-goods customs, and gifting traditions — not a Western wedding template translated into another tongue.

Nine cultural families to start. Built with care, designed to evolve with advisors from each community.

Why this exists

A Chinese tea ceremony is not the "rehearsal dinner" in another script. A Nigerian engagement is not a "shower." A Quinceañera has a court of honor that does not map onto a bridal party. When we shoehorn cultural events into a Western template, we erase the structure that gives them meaning — and we miss the paper goods, roles, and rituals that families actually need to plan.

So we built around the ceremony itself, working from publicly documented sources and (over time) cultural advisors from each community. Where traditions vary by region or denomination, we say so out loud rather than picking a single canonical form.

What each template gives you

A microsite structure that matches the ceremony's actual phases. A schedule with the right events in the right order. Role pages for the people who matter (priest, rabbi, padrinos, aso ebi committee). A paper-goods bundle suggestion that fits the customs — bilingual invitations, red envelopes, henna-style cards, aso ebi color callouts.

And a glossary built in for guests outside the tradition, so they can show up informed and respectful.

Cultural template families

Nine to start. More on the roadmap — Persian Nowruz, Vietnamese Tết, Greek and Ethiopian weddings, Filipino debut, Bar/Bat Mitzvah and Sweet 16 are next.

Wedding
Multi-dayBilingual
Indian wedding
Sangeet, mehndi, haldi, baraat, mandap ceremony, reception — across multiple days, with regional variation acknowledged.
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Wedding
Tea ceremonyRed & gold
Chinese wedding
Tea ceremony with elders, door games, qipao changes, banquet, and hongbao gifting — modern and traditional blends.
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Wedding
ChuppahKetubah
Jewish wedding
Ketubah signing, bedeken, chuppah, sheva brachot, breaking the glass, hora — Reform, Conservative, Orthodox variants noted.
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15th birthday
Court of honorMass + waltz
Quinceañera
Court of damas and chambelanes, padrinos, mass, last doll, changing of shoes, waltz, surprise dance.
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Wedding
Aso ebiTrad + white
Nigerian wedding
Traditional ceremony plus white wedding, aso ebi fabric coordination, engagement, money spray — Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa variants.
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Wedding
PaebaekHanbok
Korean wedding
Paebaek ceremony with parents, hanbok and Western dress changes, throwing dates and chestnuts — modern Korean blend.
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Festival
5 daysLakshmi puja
Diwali
Five-day festival of lights — diyas, rangoli, sweets exchange, Lakshmi puja, family gatherings and fireworks.
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Festival
Eid prayerEidi gifts
Eid (al-Fitr & al-Adha)
Eid prayer, family gathering, eidi for children, sheer khurma and sweets, new clothes — both Eids covered.
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Festival · Bonus
Reunion dinnerHongbao
Lunar New Year
Reunion dinner, red décor, hongbao / lì xì envelopes, lion and dragon dance, fai chun couplets.
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Don't see your ceremony?

This is a starting line, not a finish. If your tradition isn't here yet — Persian Nowruz, Vietnamese Tết, Ethiopian or Eritrean weddings, Greek Orthodox, Filipino debut, Bar/Bat Mitzvah, Sweet 16, Sunni vs. Shia Eid customs — tell us. We'll prioritize what real families need.

"The default is invisible until it's not your default. We want every family to find their ceremony here, not translate someone else's."

Built with the community

Cultural advisors

Each template is developed and reviewed with cultural advisors from the relevant community before production launch. We do not publish a template as "production-ready" until at least one advisor from that community has signed off — and we keep advisor credits visible on the template page.

Placeholder for prototype: advisor recruitment is tracked in the Sprint 84D doc. If you'd like to advise on a tradition, write to advisors@gishme.com.

Back to all occasion templates

Cultural templates sit alongside the standard occasion library. Pick whichever fits your celebration.

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